Advance directives-what you what when it matters most

Let’s talk about something we tend to avoid, but is absolutely critical: having an advance directive in place before you actually need it.

As a patient advocate, I often work with families facing sudden, high-stress medical crises—like an unexpected car accident, a sudden severe illness, or a complication that leaves a loved one temporarily or permanently unable to speak.

In those emotional moments, there are two very different realities:

Scenario A: The family is in a panic, crying in the hallway, trying to guess what their loved one would want. They are overwhelmed by fear, guesswork, and the crushing guilt of making a wrong choice.

Scenario B: The family is grieving, but calm. They look at a signed document and say, "We know exactly what they want us to do."

Advance care planning isn’t just for end-of-life care or senior citizens. It’s an essential tool for any adult over the age of 18. It gives you a voice when you are physically unable to use your own, expressing your wishes during a healthcare crisis. 

By creating a Living Will and designating a Healthcare Power of Attorney while you are healthy, you aren’t giving up control—you are taking it. More than that, you are giving a profound gift of peace of mind to the people who love you most.

Don’t wait for a crisis to start the conversation. Talk to your loved ones today about what matters to you.